So, there I am, back where we left
me. Returning from the kitchen in our house, where the rest of the family and I
had just sat through a quiet dinner (in itself an incredibly rare event) having
been under direction to give me the ‘silent’ treatment during the meal (see
blog 22nd July 2012). Leaving the warm kitchen (ambient temperature, not feeling),where
the pineapple upside down pudding was cooking in the oven. The pudding I would
not be allowed, as I was sent back to the room, awaiting the return of my mother,
injured brother and father. My father would then be dealing with my punishment
for injuring my brother (even if it was an accident). The hours of waiting (a
bit like the waiting for those of you following this blog), were already
starting to take their toll. I was not just worried, but was suffering from the
full extremes. The stress was steadily rising. Facing the unknown. What could I
expect from my father?
Initially, the total panic, when I
actually believed I had killed my brother (Accidentally) and realized I would
probably be killed by my father, when it was discovered as with so many
witnesses I couldn’t just walk away and disappear for ever (or could I? The
thought was a fleeting possibility). My fears changing as I realized he was
still alive and carried his small form limp in my arms as I ran back home with
him. His head injury, undetermined, but the blood poured from the wound. Some
first aid knowledge, or rather some calm application of the small amount of
first aid I did know, would have been helpful. Realizing I should have just put
a cloth over it and applied pressure, before moving him would have helped
enormously. But there was that panic factor, and we were only young children.
There were some techniques we as young children were aware. For example even at
that age, I knew how to make a splint to protect a broken arm from moving.
Does that sound as bad as it
seems? Our family had already suffered various injuries including several
broken limbs between numerous members (myself included). But they were quite
different to my brother’s current injury, as they did not (bar one), involve
copious amounts of blood. And a compound fracture (of which I am referring to
as the one that bled), while looking pretty nasty, is definitely colourful. The
skin tones, the muscle tones, the bone tones, and of course the blood, all laid
out. The first aid technique for treating a compound fracture can on occasion
involve a splint, but when the injury I am referring to occurred (later blog), there were more than enough adults to
deal with it, not just a group of slightly stunned children as had happened at
the park with the stilt collecting my brothers head.
(Continued tomorrow)
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